Most people would be heart-sick, depressed, sad, or even anxious if their lover left them. However, it is very important to take threats like these very seriously. Did they threaten to kill you if you leave them? This is also very serious and could be true! However, if you’re not walking out the door that moment, you don’t have to worry about imminent death (Get Lundy Bancroft’s book, Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men). Did your partner threaten to kill you while holding a gun? You’d better get the hell out of there.
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How to React to Threatening Behavior & Wordsįirst, you analyze the threat. Just because someone else says “That doesn’t sound so bad!” does not mean you were not threatened.
What kind of threat did you just perceive?ĭescribing your abuser’s action may sound like nothing when repeating it to a friend, but abusers have certain menacing looks and actions known only to their victims. Analyze anything your abuser does that makes your heart skip a beat (not in a good way, but in a bad way). Threatening behaviors include playing with or cleaning weapons while looking at you threateningly, blocking you in a room or corner (using their hands to block you is also considered domestic violence), “puffing up” or getting in your face while in conversation. Some things you could hear are, “If you go out dressed like that I will play wing-man for my friend” or “If you don’t have dinner on the table by 6 tonight, there will be hell to pay.” Any statement that says or implies “If you … then I’ll” is a threat. If your partner threatens to leave if you do or don’t do something, that is a threat and is verbal and emotional abuse. "It's a shame that they can't be happy for me, but at least now I know who my real friends are.As you can guess, threatening words and behavior imply or involve emotional pain, physical pain or both. "I have had friends come up to me and tell me that they can't go out with me anymore because I'm getting all of the attention that they used to get. "I never used to get any attention from men, so it's nice to get the odd wolf-whistle or guy asking for my number. I finally feel confident in myself and I like showing off my body. Paige said: "When I go out now, I like to look glamorous. However, Paige admits that her transformation has also led to the loss of friends, who are jealous that she now steals their limelight. "I think that anyone who feels uncomfortable about their body should take the plunge and do something about it. All of my family keep telling me how great I look, and for the first time in my life, I actually feel it. She said: "I've never felt better about myself. Paige, who now weighs just 10st, says that her weight-loss has completely changed her life and she regrets waiting so long to make a change. "By the time I got to work, I was dripping in sweat and my makeup was running off my face. And my feet were covered in massive blisters from the pressure of carrying my body around. If I was walking for the bus, I'd have to stop for a break. "I was constantly tired and short of breath.
Deep down I knew that my health was suffering because of my weight, but I'd always tried to deny it. They also warned her that if she didn't ditch the fizzy drinks, her teeth would fall out. In March 2013, doctors diagnosed 5ft 3in Paige as morbidly obese and told her she was at risk of having a heart attack. Office worker Paige had spent years gorging on shop-bought sandwiches, biscuits and chocolate.Ī regular visitor to McDonald's, she would eat two burger meals and fries, followed by a McFlurry and a large milkshake.Īnd during the day, she would guzzle a 2-litre bottle of full-fat Coke.īy the age of 21, her weight had soared to 23st and her BMI was a dangerous 57 - nearly three times the recommended range of 18.5 to 25. "However, when my boyfriend made that comment, I knew I couldn't kid myself any longer."
"Even when I broke a sun lounger at a family barbeque by sitting on it, I just laughed it off. "I had no confidence whatsoever, but I tried to kid myself that I was happy being fat. Men would say horrible things about me on nights out, like "God, look at the size of her." "I'd always been big as a child, and then I was 'the fat one' in my bunch of friends. Paige, from Sydenham, South East London, said: "It was absolutely mortifying when my boyfriend told me that my belly was getting in the way, but it gave me the push I needed to finally do something about my weight. Paige embarked on a diet that has seen her drop an amazing eight dress sizes from a size 28 to a svelte size 12. The 22-year-old, who once weighed a massive 23st, was shamed into dropping the pounds when her boyfriend revealed her belly was too big for them to make love on a romantic getaway for their one-year anniversary. A WOMAN humiliated after her boyfriend branded her too fat for sex has shed a staggering 13 stone.Īnd Paige Way has had the last laugh - but ditching HIM too.
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